I have been lurking for a few days but figured I should say "hi". I am 39 years old and have submissive tendencies (but still a bit willful). I don't have much experience in this at all, but am at a point in my life where I would like to explore this side of myself. I am married to a vanilla husband, but we have had a very rocky relationship and I (unfortunately) don't have the level of trust or respect needed to involve him in my fantasies. I'm very unsure and a little confused about how to proceed, but I have found this site to be very helpful and full of nice people. I also happen to be addicted to erotica lately...lol. I look forward to reading more posts and getting to know all of you.

shygirlD