I’m back after a long absence.

[sexysouthernslut4u]

Sub; took on this identifying title since 1999 actually was a sub as early as 1992. Fell into the Library around 2007 survived and rebuilt after the crash of 09/10 here. Active in my local community until I’m not, generally because of consent or safety violations or unchecked predators. I always retreat to the safety and comfort of the Library and glad to be back again.

Please understand that I do not look at the use of the term slut as a negative connotation. Moreover I wear it as a badge which reflects my exuberant sexuality and deep passion. My style and skills are an acquired talent which is given as my gift.

I am an ethical slut and this term is used to signify a person who is accepting of their enjoyment of sex and the pleasure of intimacy with others, and chooses to engage and accept these in an ethical and open way — rather than as cheating.

I’m not an online sub. I also identify as poly.

If you catch me in chat you will find that I’m a woman who is strong, confident, bold, and assertive in her life and her dealings with people in general. I’m open and friendly to any orientation or topic of conversation as long as it abides by the guidelines set in place here.

To my old friends can’t wait to see ya and to my new friends I can’t wait to meet ya!

Look forward to talking to you in chat soon!

sss4u

[Solis]

It's good to hear from you, and to have you back.

"Slut" is an interesting term. Originally and for centuries, it mostly pointed to an slovenly person (sometimes male) or one who didn't take proper care. For example, "dust bunnies" were known as "slut wool" and lumps in poorly kneaded bread were "slut pennies." Perhaps some Mitt Romney of the 15th century, sure that all of the poor were "takers, not makers," transferred the term to all kitchen maids. The sense of a woman who enjoyed sex altogether too much seems to arise in the wild 'n' crazy 60s. Odd time for that disapproval to be dragged out of the historical depths, eh?

In any case, bon chance and welcome!

As ever,

S.