Hi, ive always enjoyed watching bdsm, and i am interested in the finer subtleties of how it works.

i am an 18 year old male, and inexpierenced in the art of bdsm.

in regards to watching, i find that i enjoy lesbian domination alot more the male on female. not because i have a lesbian fetish or anything, just because when i see a male dominating a female i feel like knocking out the male and taking over (is this normal?). but with lesbians i am content to watch.

also ive been reading a few threads and ive noticed you all seem to be nice, friendly people. i was expecting far more sexual hostility, viciousness and/or meek submissiveness.