I Have been with my sub for over 2 years now but in the past year i have noticed he has been pushing his submissiveness to the side.Now it is gradually getting worse. Everytime i aproch him knowing i want to kick his ass and give him some spanking he tells me either his sick or something needs to be done and his not in the mood...(NOT IN THE MOOD)...He say's it's stress and once he has too many things going on he doesn't feel to submit.(just to cuddle)....
Im ok with that only i do have some needs that are required and it's getting to a point where im slowly getting fustrated.We have talked about it and he say's it will come back it just happens sometimes..
My question is ...
Is it possible that stress and whatever else could make him feel unsubmissive,or do you think there could be something else playing apart of this?
Does this really happen sometimes and will it come back ??