Asking for Assistance

[tessa]

Hello to all of you. ~hugs for those I know and less intrusive smiles and waves to those I am not completely familiar with~ I come to you to request your guidance and input. I am going to thank minxy ~big HUG~ for encouraging me to open up and try out these newly unfettered submissive wings of mine.

I have asked for input from the Doms and Dommes of this wonderful community and now I am here to ask for the mindfulness of the incredible submissives I have been reading and learning from here.

My husband and I, while married for 15 years, have just started on our D/s journey together. And I thought it was going to be soooo easy just because we discovered this is both what we want. At the suggestion of a couple very dear-to-me people, I have started a thread in the "My BDSM Life" titled 'my journey'. In it is a chronicle of small sorts of what has happened so far with us (which isn't a great deal, but still more than I ever dreamed). My request to all of you is this...if you are so inclined, would you please read through posting #13, "What happened after...", and see if you have any words of experience and wisdom to pass along to me, to him...to us? "Well, tessa, if you posted there, why are you posting here?" Two reasons actually. One, I need to hear from submissives who KNOW what this is already all about and can help me in what is turning into a beautiful and strangely foreign journey. Two, poor minx is shouldering me all on her own right now, and while she probably wouldn't ever say a word differently, it is not fair to ask her to keep it up (not to say that I won't keep coming to you, minxy...sorry?? I just value you that much.)

So, if any of you would be so kind as to respond, I thank you very, very much.

Respectfully-
tessa