Hope this isn't repetitive...

For those of you who have bought a butterfly or remote control vibrator to be taken out in public for your partner's entertainment (and your pleasure), can others hear it?

I just bought a teeny tiny vibrator, believing that it is surely more discreet than my 8 incher, can't really sit at the computer any old time with the 8 incher, eh? Well, it's not more discreet. That thing is so loud I thought I had a gigantic bumblebee trying to escape my inards. It was also about as obvious as a lite tampon on day 2...it just feels like it's not even there. (excuse me, that was graphic, but the ladies understand) Too bad I can't return it for obvious reasons.

Aside from I need to get something different...

To my question...are all little bitty vibrators/butterflies like this? I've read about women going out at the mercy of their partner, perhaps for dinner, the jump they give from sudden enjoyment, but no mention of it being loud enough for the waiter to hear...in the kitchen.

Any particular style that is more discreet than others?