Ross Martin here! I have been around for a few years posting the occasional BDSM story. This is the first time I have entered the arena of the forum proper.:

Why am I here? To gather ideas and to share ideas. To meet up with Doms (Fem as well as Male) who don't mind conversing about what makes them Doms and what they enjoy doing and what they would, could, should enjoy. Also to meet up with fem subs who have the okay from their doms to talk about themselves and what makes them subs, etc. Also to meet up with fem pain sluts and learn from them. Perhaps also to meet up with someone in Oz land to converse with and perhaps meet up with. Is any or all of this asking for too much? Only time will tell. In the meantime I write because that is what I do being a writer.