~hugs mari~ I wish you weren't going through so much turmoil. When real life intrudes into the fantasy picture, one can never tell what will happen. I can't specualte about why j is feeling the way she is. Well, I could as I do have an opinion, but I don't know her side of it, so it's not really fair. Feelings can make people do all sorts of things, from blessed to evil. I just hope that you can all talk openly and work this out so you can all stay together and happy.

The very best to you.

tessa