Yes, of course I want it all!! But it was offered and promised vehemently to me!!! Please understand that. I did not impose myself on them. They looked for me, and invited me in, even becoming frustrated when I sometimes did not believe that it could be for real!!
You have a right to your opinion, of course. However, hellish one's point was for you to "tone down". There are many different ways to state your opinion. Instead of "are you for real?" you could have said, "You may be missing something here" or something like that.
And perhaps there is something to your words- perhaps others feel the same way, but have pointed out other things, or pointed it out to me in a kinder way.