Quote Originally Posted by carinas View Post
so unless my opinion is soft and fluffy im being a meanie, gawd, you posted it to an internet forum, you will (maybe/maybe not) come across others that say it like it is and not powder coat things to save peoples feelings, truth is harsh and it isnt always gunna come across as nice.
thats it for me, i wont come back here, i didnt expect fluff on a bdsm site.
You're entitled to your own opinion, but I personally think you could have expressed it not so harshly. You were being very rude when mari poured her heart and soul out to us for advice. She didn't do that to get rude comments. There are many other more polite adult ways your words could have been worded that would not have come across as rude.


Fluff is everywhere that women congregate. BDSM isn't about just whips, chains and pain. There is a lot more to it, including fluff. Your opinion doesn't have to be warm and fluffy but it needs to be expressed in a manner befitting adults.