Wow, tessa...once again -- A thank you for posting this. I was beginning to wonder, considering the different perspectives on subs.

I myself am pretty spirited. Sometimes I wonder if I am too spirited. Requiem seems to be perfectly fine with it. He's okay with the fact that I am independent, and have my own views and opinions, not to mention my own life. But even in play, I fight back a little... Sometimes more than others.

firefly, I think you pinned it with "Realistically Submissive".