newbie, frustrated...already

[good_girl]

Aussiegirl1...thank you, I do think you are right that he is unsure, he seems so confidant in his e-mails but lets me get away with anything in person.
I know he has many ideas in his head, we have talked about a lot of them, I just wonder if he is unsure about just how to bring them to life.

crazy grrluk...well we have agreed to start slow, so no whips or chains...yet.
I hadn't thought of setting my own tasks, I have been waiting for him to do that, but now that you mention it, there are a few things I think I might be trying on my own very soon