Ok, just a bit of background....I am newly exploring my submissive side, and have quite recently met and have been dating someone who is newly exploring his Dominant side...sounds great, and some days it is. We started getting to know each other online very casually, with only very brief mention of our interests, we seemed to hit it off well there and eventually the discussion turned more to what our interests are and found that we are very much on the same page although neither of us has any real practical experiance...so we decided to meet and see how things went, needless to say they went very well and we have seen each other as often as our schedules will allow for since, sadly this isn't very often.

Although this sounds like the ideal situation (at least for me it sounds that way) I find myself getting frustrated...we agreed to take things slow, and also agreed that this is not something either of us wants as the entire of a relationship, but...I want more and I want it now!!!

Now that I'm reading my words I think what I really need is just someone to give me some advice on patiance, and possible some suggestions on how or even if I can get things moving a bit faster but still let him be in control.

As far as his e-mails go, he is definitely giving me what I need...things to do for him, things to think about etc, but when we are together he seems to back off a bit, any suggestions on how to feed his confidance when we are together would be greatly appreciated as well.

I have read a lot in the forums and found some very interesting things, but have not come across much at all where both parties in a new relationship are newly exploring, hoping someone out there has been there and can help me out...and soon ...I'm very impatiant.