Quote Originally Posted by caligirl{Rob} View Post
silly me looked at it as honestly answering a serious question with the thoughtful and open view of the reality of my own life, my own experience, and difficult choices made to get through each day...that is obviously something that is not wise to do...i don't apologize nor seek approval, but also don't expect the willingness to share part of my experience as open season to be judged
I don't think you owe anyone here an apology nor do you need anyone here to approve of what you do. However, expecting not to be judged is a bit naive. Hell, I've been called sick, twisted and dangerous by fellow BDSMers because of some of my kinks, which was kind of surprising since I don't consider myself as hard core as some people.