Quote Originally Posted by silver9 View Post
I think there's a lot of Dom's out there too who're keen to take advantage of anyone, and I know I've talked to some who immediately expect me to call them 'Master' or 'Sir' just because I'm a sub, and they're just plain horrible to talk to; they treat you like a piece of meat.
I must make a confession here...I've never, not once, had a Dom tell me immediately to call him Sir or Master or whatever. I think part of the reason is that I don't hang out in the chatroom and part of the reason is that I make no secret of my age (43) and the ones who want that right away are usually insecure ninnies who seek out "young meat" to feel powerful. It's quite pathetic, really.

Both of these kinds of people give BDSM a bad name, and it's worse when they won't listen... but there are still some genuinely nice people out there
Yes, there are.