Quote Originally Posted by Sir_Russell View Post
Shame that more of us don't write about real world experiences to give the newbees a chance to hear how it actually is.

I also have thought of a web site where we could list those "Dom" that are really abusers.
Yes it is a shame more of us don't write about our experiences, but there's generally good reasons for that- I tend to think it's private myself.

It would be a waste of time listing the predators who set themselves up as Doms. For one thing they often use different names. Nor is it so easy to judge who's OK & who isn't- just because someone treats a sub like dirt once, doesn't mean they won't see the error of their ways.

They may also meet someone who won't fall for their lines & perhaps show them that actually becoming a Dom wouldn't be a bad thing.