Tojo one of the problems of the internet is that it is very hard to patrol. When it was just groups of us kinky folks getting together in real life we could patrol the behavior of the abusers and most of us did. Today it is very different.

As far as making your experiences public the only person that needs to be identified is the writer and then only because they have a screen name.

I do not use real names for any of my histories other then my name since it is my screen name. Again I think it is a very good and easy way to show others the path that you have taken and let them decide if it might be a map for them.