well one of the reasons i started this thread was because,there is a particular girl i was thinking of and i am a bit worried about her.

some of this post is taken from an email i sent to a friend about her (who i hope doesnt mind me posting it here xx) who very kindly offered to help.

she's only quite young (20) she seems to know what she wants she's a really nice girl im not silly and am a fairly good judge of character and im sure she's not a wannabee but she hasnt a clue!

she got talking to a sub (so called) before i 'met' her and has heard so much crap from her its unbelievable,the girl has really got into her head.
she's had her join slave farm ...wow a real good start ...and she seems to believe that everything posted there is straight from the bdsm bible!
this other sub is very pushy and full of hot air.i could tell you all about her and the influence she has but it would take forever lol
i got talking with her and needless to say we didnt get on too well im not usually pushy and did my best to be tactful but apparently she's got 20+ yrs of experience she knows whats what and im just some silly girl who hasnt a clue .....so piss offf wannabee etc lol that doesnt bother me and i dont think she's worth the hassle,

but so far she's talked her into sending god knows how many pics and performing on webcam, but strangely enough the other girl and her Dom dont have pics or a cam, now they're talking of meeting up as she's recruiting for her 'Master' but not to worry because they're not going to push her into anything ,no strings attached,no expectations etc use

so far they havnt met up but i have a feeling its not far off,
recently i decided to be more blunt with her,i wasnt rude or nasty but she's taken the hump and now wont speak to me so there's nothing i can do,i know its not my buisness and maybe im being overly cautious but that doesnt stop me from worrying about her and she'll have to learn from her own experience i just hope it isnt a bad one.
despite everything she's a very sweet girl and i dont want her to get hurt,but i think she will at the very least i think she will become disallusioned and will spoil what could have been a lovely new way of life for her.

i just wanted to say thankyou to all of you who posted,i took on board all that was said here but as was pointed out in a few posts some people dont want to listen whether its in their own interests or not.
i guess much as i dont want to i have to bow out which i feel im letting her down for but what else can i do?

aaagh the silly girl! for the first time ever i want to be the one doing the flogging!

sorry,vent over lol