lol ive often wondered the same thing and we've been to fetish places where i was dressed up a little because it was a club with a dress code and it was a bit of fun too but these guys were really strutting their stuff and tbh they looked a bit silly and ott.

im not criticising in a nasty way, they were friendly but it was very in your face and we had the very distinct impression that if we had said we wernt newbies as they had assumed simply because we wasnt 'dressed the part' they wouldnt have been quite so pushy,its like they were competing as to who had the most 'knowledge' and introducing themselves as hi im r****e online at aol etc whats the point in that!

i didnt introduce myself as hi im icey online at msn lol we're not like that we just went as ourselves and for so******ing thats all not to prove how experienced/inexperienced we are and what we do and name drop over whos met who.