I've been to a few munches here locally. The people here are just ...people. No strange dressing that shows. It's an upstairs room off a bar, and to outsiders, it could look like a group of office friends meeting.
If someone has a toy to show, or is wearing something naughty underneath, 2 or 3 people will go into one of the bathrooms with him/her and show them there.
I haven't noticed any rushes to descend on newby subs, nor have I noticed a clicquishness.
The discussions are all over the board, lifestyle and non-lifestyle.
Haven't noticed any drunks or anyone being really hit on, either.
I wish I could visit more often!