I decided to post this threat because I am about to embark on a new chapter of my life with my owner, meaning were getting married, and I was curious as to how many of the members of this forum wish they could take that step someday with their owners or slaves?! Is marriage and making a family an essential part of D/s, or a continuation even...

I know for some BDSM oriented things atleast in my case, my partner, as much as I love him, is a means to an end, meaning, I cant quite bind myself in the strictest bondage without his help, and as for the breath play, thats out, cant be suffocating myself all too well without risking something bad happening. Are there bondage couples who see their relationships, as loving and wonderful as they are as strictly D/s. Or are you already married, and the thrill of being with someone who can give you that helpless owned feeling is what truly gets you going?! A lot of detail is not necessary, just wanted your opinions or thoughts on this, wanna make sure Im not the only one wanting marriage, kids, a house in the suburbs, and complete control here...