Ironically enough one of the things I struggle with the most is something that I truly want which is to have children one day. I know its possible, so many of you, and others have children and manage to keep the kinky spice alive, but I must admit I worry that it will cut it into the 24/7 control relationship I live with my owner. We all have our obligations regardless of the D/s. but I just think that my son or daughter finding their mom completely mummified and helpless in the basement would cause some problems. Does that make sense or just sound plain silly?! lol