I met my Master online in a chat room. I had had a couple of other online Doms before I met Him. He and I hit it off right away when W/we first started chatting online. W/we became friends first while chatting, learning about each other as people first, instead of as Dom and sub. W/we began to send PMs, e-mail and snail mail to each other, exchanged photos and phone numbers. W/we chatted online for a year before W/we met IRL. W/we known each other now for 9 years and have been together for 8 years.

You can also met a Master at a play party, a munch, a dungeon or a BDSM club. I personally probably would never go that route, because I personally don't know any kinky people in my area and I would not want to go to those places alone (I don't even go to regular bars alone).

You can always put in a personal ad here at this site or stop by the chat room here. There are some really nice people who hang out there and W/we are a friendly bunch as well.