Quote Originally Posted by mastersgem View Post
Well having tried both ways (Real time and Internet), I don't think it really matters the venue. I do think geography has a bit to do with it. For example; the UK is far ahead of Canada when it comes to BDSM - so for us ultra conservative Canadians, the pickins are slim hehe
I think you're wrong.... in a way. The only thing that is different is how brave you need to be to give and acknowledge hints. I mean... nobody is claiming sexual interests are learned are they? I certainly didn't attend "vagina appreciation" classes as a kid, I found an interest anyway. Sex and sex drive are all pure hormones.

I think it's a pretty even spread. All humans find it exciting to break taboos sexually... there's no reason Canada and UK should be any different. Basically, the more conservative the more taboos to break, and therefore it'll be easier to find people with a pronounced and advanced sexual fantasy life. It'll always be much harder to put ones finger on ones fetishes in a society where anything goes. A fetish is just something for your sex fantasies to latch on to.

I also think weather plays a part on how much action is going on. It's much easier being relaxed about your slutiness around people with less clothes on.... and hot and humid. But that doesn't really effect the mentality of the people to begin with.