Why is it currently trendy to be bi if you're a female? I don't know- I think a lot of self-proclaimedly bisexual girls (of my age group and lower) are just doing it for attention or to be rebellious. I'd like to make a nice positive statement about young women owning their sexuality and not being bound by outdated morality and social convention, but I don't think that's true.

The more interesting question to me right now is that of why, given the fashionable status of female bisexuality, is it not cool for men to be bi? Taking myself for example. I consider myself pan-sexual or gender-blind in my approach to my sexuality; attracted to people regardless of their sex or if their gender matches up to it, but the functional result could be said to be bisexuality- in simplistic terms.

I'd like to think that my willingness to be open-minded and accepted was laudible and cool, but it seems not to be the case. Rather, most people -outside of the bdsm community, seem to be if not disgusted then at least disturbed by my sexuality. I do wish more guys were open to trying it, but I think that's 15-20 years down the road.

Oh well, I guess I didn't add much to this, but I wanted to say something.