I certainly didn't mean to come across this way, I am perfectly happy with my sexuality, I've had my encounters with women, but I wouldn't consider myself bisexual because of them and have never used it in a way to gain attention.
It just just be the girls I'm encountering in the scene at the moment and the dominants they have, its very much a competition atmosphere at the moment I find.
Who has the subbiest subbie, who is bi, bendy, corseted and subbier than thou.
Drives me mad.
Thank you all for you posts, much to think about and ponder.
Live to question and challenge all you know - as they say.
Thanks