hey all!

Great thread thrall, its really come at a good time. i really struggle to keep anything hidden, and if i try to lie it is even worse; i blush and fidget and stutter, just ugly all round. but i have been struggling all day to get the courage up to confess a pretty serious transgression to Master and this thread has just strengthened my resolve to suck it up and do whats right. Doesn't mean i am any less terrified of his disappointment though. i really believe that lies and dishonesty only serve to put a distance between people and i don't want even a metaphoric centimeter between Master and i. Don't get me wrong, i really do think its alright to tell white lies to avoid hurting someones feelings or when really necessary, or at least to employ some tact when telling the truth. It isn't practical to be honest ALL the time, and if you are i imagine you are in trouble very often. But lies between a Dom and sub are never okay. And really, why would you want them to be? what is more important than communication, honesty and trust? without them it wouldn't be anything like a Ds relationship, would it? i think that your honesty with your Dom, whether it gets you in trouble sometimes is an invaluable quality which will just strengthen your Dom's trust and respect for you, so kudos and keep 'fessing up i say!

xoxo adie