pervertedpages: I actually looked at this from entirely the opposite angle - that, frankly, it's annoying and hurtful when people "claim" to be bi to ramp up their allure because THAT is an insult to the folks that actually are. It's like throwing leather on and claiming to be a Dom or getting spanked once in awhile and claiming to be sub. Sure, being kinky may turn some heads but does it make you part of The Lifestyle a lot of us cherish? When people raise an eyebrow at the false Doms and subs out there I guess I don't feel threatened so much as glad they're paying attention. Am I missing the boat here?