Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
Perhaps nothing more than willingness to chance a meeting.

(Nice to see you back posting sidhewolf. )
Don't think it's that Ozme. You should Know "chancing a meeting" is not the thing lol. With online things, as in Real Time, there does have to be common ground to build from initially.

Online is so much harder in my way of seeing it. Meeting others in Real Time has been my primary experience, and seems much easier to work with. Though I did meet Master online initially. That was more of a "looks promising, let's meet and see how it goes". A more Realistic view than I am seeing with the people we've talked with? And here we are nearly 5 years later. But it wasn't just that simple or fast. It's taken Time to Learn and Grow and Build, lots of Work Effort, compromise, patience, understanding, and even at times Agreeing to DisAgree. And much much more. The bottom line is> You can't get there without the Work, AND Honest Open Communication.

Those are the things I see missing from our online Communcations with other(s) most of all. Firstly the Open Honest Communications. Sharing what ones agenda's are, ie what they are Truly seeking to begin with. A lack of establishing common goals. And then a lack of willingness to do the Work to achieve.

The "ah I'm attracted, let's call it Love (yah right)", and "well now I've decided I want one of you so the other must go", isn't working. It isn't what We want, nor what We are after. How or Why do We "chance a meeting" on that basis? Or that mindset? The old Divide & Conquer game that children play. What Wisdom is in inviting those in that want to destroy what one has carefully, timestakingly built? Unless one wishes to tear that down and start over from scratch. Which isn't Our point or desire of seeking out other(s). We wish to Add To, Not take from.

On my lack of posting lately (the last few months), Thank You Sir for the welcome back First I was extremely busy, then extremely ill (almost died), then a death in the Family, AND our internet provider sucks (signal problems they've been going to fix for a year now that have gotten much worse). Then without my income (while I was out of work for a month to sick to get out of bed) the crappy net provider shut us off for non-payment. Shoot, we didn't even Know that's what happened, our service is so crappy to begin with. BUT the bill is now paid, and they have promised Again, to fix their issues this next week We'll see!

Huggs Sir

Respectfully~SidheWolf