Ok so here is my thoughts and questions; We've Both been here a while. Over this time we've been here, there has only been really one person we've communicated with, that I Truly even thought would work out Real Time.

Why? Because it seems everyone we talk with want different things than will fit in with what we have. OR, Wish to disrespect the pre-exisiting Relationship We have. Or want to manipulate and control one or both of Us. We've yet to find one person who is entirely open and honest about themselves, and what they are seeking. And none seem to want to Work towards and Earn anything. Most seem to want instant fairytale type things, without the work and effort it takes to get there.

Many come drawn to Master (which I surely understand). He is a very charismatic person. As well as experienced and a lot of fun. Either these discount the fact that He has one Slave here already, or imagine *they* can somehow do away with this one. The most recent one even Told Me that it was "none of my business what her plans were with Master" basically, and tried to Tell Me how it is and how it's going to be, in my Real Life with Him. Submissive? NOT! Nor her place to do. It IS after all His Decision regarding such things ultimately.

We've been seeking to add others who are Submissives or Slaves, even a primarily Submissive Switch may work out well, for some time now. We are Both very open to and desirous of such. And yet keep running into these walls.

Are there others out there who are experiencing the same problems? Or others who have successfully added others to their pre-existing Relationship Real Time, that started out online? How do we get there from here?

Overall it seems our stats are pretty low, and I'm not sure WHY? We're both friendly, fairly attractive, Loving, interested, stable, and even already have a Home (dwelling) to share. Yet Only one person in more than a year of seeking, has even come close to being someone we were both interested and able to work with. We Both adored her. And even that didn't happen.

Are there Real people (Submissives and Slaves) out there online who want long term committed Relationship(s) with a Poly Family that they would be a part of and Grow with? Or is online just not the place to look?

Thoughts, ideas?

Respectfully~SidheWolf