Quote Originally Posted by Arria View Post
But I always wondered what the point in doing this was. I mean, if it feels wrong for the sub, and if it therefore feels "fake" for the third party, what is the use of that?

I find nothing worse to bear than a fake Dom/me, so I might just be a little sensitive on that topic...
OMG - ain't that the truth. I've been on the receiving end of someone who was doing it 'just for me' and that is so unsatisfying. At first I couldn't figure out what was wrong that I wasn't enjoying it as much as I had hoped...then I spent time with someone who really is a Dom, really knows how to go about his Domly business with a sub...it was like night and day.

And about topping another for His entertainment? I would do it, but I don't think I'd like it. And I worry that it would change the relationship between the two of us in a negative way.

That being said...there's a particular someone I wouldn't mind getting my hands (and a flogger) on...

We could take turns, chickie.