What if...

[darknight666]

I could do it every once in awhile.

It actually could work out in my favor. Spend a few weeks dominating and get all cocky and bitchy, then have my mistress suddenly turn and torture the bitch outta me.

[Psynymph]

Nice, darknight.....

Well i have a very dominating personality in the vanilla world and when people meet me, they usually guess me as a Domme.....i'm not bitchy, just more of a leader....

but that's what makes my submission soooo sweet....to find that person that can utterly control me.....hmmm sends shivers down my body....

but to be asked to Dom someone who's been Domming me?? i would want to cry because i've dommed before and had aboslutely no sexual interest in it whatsoever. i'm a painslut and i just took out my aggression on the subbie....in very excruciating ways.

i am more likely to dom women though......

[KermitsKeeper]

Don't worry Kate. Sometimes it takes a while to hit your stride...

Thanks for that. I feel like I stumble a lot, but we're still happy, so I can't be doing all bad!

[wind_dancer{W_W}]

i would definately not be into that, and i would let Him know that right off the bat but i would go through with it because i love my Lord more than anything and, altough i am pretty sure that would never happen, i would do everything He desired. But honestly i mean i could completely fake it because i am a rather good actress, but it would cause a massive separation between myself and my Lord and i know, because of who i am, i would find it VERY easy to forget my place as His slave which would take U/us a giant step backwards in O/our relationship.

[moonlitsub]

I remember going into a relationship where the girl whom I was with was also submissive I liked her before I found out she was also kinky. Unfortionetly I usually ended up being top though it didn't seem hard for me I didn't enjoy it and at some points scared myself I saw that she was giving herself over and then I would wonder what was stopping me from pushing this pleasure and pain to just pain. I remember choking her one time while getting her off and thinking I didn't have to stop choking her and she would die happy. (this was a few years ago when I was less stable) Though when I was able to convince her to top me it was unbelievable but she lacked self confidence in doing it so it usually wouldn't get to far. I with we had a third to top us both so much more can be done with two bottoms.

[Arria]

I tried it, it does nothing for me.

So when I got together with hubby, one of the hard limits we set was switching (either of us).
Hence I don´t have to worry about it.

Moreover, I think one should only do what feels genuine and good, but that´s just me. I have heard of other subs who do this, and enjoy it.

But I always wondered what the point in doing this was. I mean, if it feels wrong for the sub, and if it therefore feels "fake" for the third party, what is the use of that?

I find nothing worse to bear than a fake Dom/me, so I might just be a little sensitive on that topic...

[jeanne]

But I always wondered what the point in doing this was. I mean, if it feels wrong for the sub, and if it therefore feels "fake" for the third party, what is the use of that?

I find nothing worse to bear than a fake Dom/me, so I might just be a little sensitive on that topic...

OMG - ain't that the truth. I've been on the receiving end of someone who was doing it 'just for me' and that is so unsatisfying. At first I couldn't figure out what was wrong that I wasn't enjoying it as much as I had hoped...then I spent time with someone who really is a Dom, really knows how to go about his Domly business with a sub...it was like night and day.

And about topping another for His entertainment? I would do it, but I don't think I'd like it. And I worry that it would change the relationship between the two of us in a negative way.

That being said...there's a particular someone I wouldn't mind getting my hands (and a flogger) on...

We could take turns, chickie.

[tessa]

That being said...there's a particular someone I wouldn't mind getting my hands (and a flogger) on...

We could take turns, chickie.

You have rendered me speecless...shocking, I know. But when I recover, mmmhmmm...be ready, chicklet.

[sidhewolf]

Yes, I would do/or/try to do, whatever I was told by the Dom or Master who Controls me. Hard Limits, or prior Agreements/Bounderies most times take priority however.

I was Trained for Topping by First M. It wasn't hard, as I thought it might be. Topping under Direction is fairly easy really.

One does not have to be Dominant to Top...only willing <G>.

Respectfully~SidheWolf

[SubmissiveDoll]

Sure, I could do it. My first command would be to cut that shit out and go back to being the Dom. *grins* No, I couldn't actually Dom him, not a chance. Every now and then he will give me permission to do anything I like... It makes me nervous and after a while I get kind of frustrated. He is in no way telling me to Dom him, but giving me some free play time. Normal rules don't apply, I can touch him anywhere I like. It's fun, but not for more than a few minutes. After that I need him to take control again, or I start feeling very lost. Besides, the idea of him subbing is hilarious.

[Ozme52]

That being said...there's a particular someone I wouldn't mind getting my hands (and a flogger) on...

We could take turns, chickie.

You have rendered me speecless...shocking, I know. But when I recover, mmmhmmm...be ready, chicklet.

I'll watch!!

At first.

[jeanne]

I'll watch!!

At first.

Hahahaha! I bet you will, milord. "Watch", that is.

You'd enjoy the view. I'd make sure of it.

[tessa]

I'll watch!!

At first.

~wonders how long "at first" would last~

You'd enjoy the view. I'd make sure of it.

Isn't she just too good?

Speaking of how good jeanne is...

I'm thinking crop...that whistling sound it makes before hitting the flesh...that split second of anticipatory fear before the crop strikes that tender skin...yummy. And it leaves the prettiest straight lines. (Since I can't draw those things to save my life, I have to get 'em by proxy.)

~imagines the beautifully long-legged "proxy" and smiles wickedly~

How's that for an idea, chicklet?

[jeanne]

~wonders how long "at first" would last~



Isn't she just too good?

Speaking of how good jeanne is...

I'm thinking crop...that whistling sound it makes before hitting the flesh...that split second of anticipatory fear before the crop strikes that tender skin...yummy. And it leaves the prettiest straight lines. (Since I can't draw those things to save my life, I have to get 'em by proxy.)

~imagines the beautifully long-legged "proxy" and smiles wickedly~

How's that for an idea, chicklet?

I like the way you think, chickie!

I, on the other hand, am currently not thinking at all. Feeling, yes. Imagining, oh hell yes. Dreaming, fantasizing, picturing...

As lovely as you may find the proxy stripes...the idea of a handful of rope and your lovely, bountiful "assets" at my disposal captures my imagination in the most delicious ways.

Back atcha, my tessa!

[Willsubmit2]

I'm submissive by nature, but I can call up the Dom side of me (the switch deeper in me) and take care of the situation if I need to...

[wind_dancer{W_W}]

i would definately not be into that, and i would let Him know that right off the bat but i would go through with it because i love my Lord more than anything and, altough i am pretty sure that would never happen, i would do everything He desired. But honestly i mean i could completely fake it because i am a rather good actress, but it would cause a massive separation between myself and my Lord and i know, because of who i am, i would find it VERY easy to forget my place as His slave which would take U/us a giant step backwards in O/our relationship.

i must add somethings to this... no matter how much i love my Lord i would never be fully there ever again because it would kill me inside and probably out to see him with another.. even if i do have His love. i would slowly die on the inside and become nothing but a hollow shell of a person. Because it would crush my heart way to much to see that. (i am definately crying as i write this) i love my Lord more than my life but if He wants me to be healthy and happy this would do the exact opposite.....

[Arria]

(Though when I'm being punished... sometimes I would LOVE to give him a taste of it.)

OMG I am completely with you there! *laughs*

[tessa]

As lovely as you may find the proxy stripes...the idea of a handful of rope and your lovely, bountiful "assets" at my disposal captures my imagination in the most delicious ways.

Back atcha, my tessa!

Your mind, your mind, your mind!! I love it! And on top of the SSC stuff, you are also the QUEEN of SLOC...



You rock, darling chicklet.

[Lisais mine]

Sure, I could do it. My first command would be to cut that shit out and go back to being the Dom. *grins* .

very funny, doll

I couldn't let My girrl Dom Me. if she wanted a pet of her very own, we could talk about it. but she'd be responsible for feeding it and taking it for walks.....

[slavedoggieboy]

your Dom/me Master/Mistress wanted YOU to dominate (online or in r/l)?
Not as a regular occurance but as once in awhile thing. Would you do it? How would you feel about it?

One time my Mistress L asked me to spank her, and i could not do it. She promised not to be angry, but i could not do it. There is something inside me that will not let me hurt her or for that matter any woman.

slavedoggieboy

[Veralynne]

I couldn't do it. If He asked me to, He wouldn't be Him. Even if I wanted to obey Him, I don't think I could.

Now if He insisted- I could probably bring myself to Domme someone else, but it would be a bit tricky, just because I am a sub. But with Him, our roles are very strongly ingrained in my mind, and I don't consider it a "game", so I cannot just switch it around for fun. It would be like turning my world upside down. I would be very confused and upset.