Quote Originally Posted by asiangirl View Post
Well put, denuseri.
Agreed, very well put.

denuseri, to answer your question question with an answer. When the bottom protests, and the Top retains the control irregardless of consent given or revoked it ceases to be consensual, and the bastard should go to jail as you mentioned.

So with the semantics of power being exchanged for a bottom to be bound and gagged consensually. Does the dominant hold the control or the sub. I say it remains equal. Who directs the scene, it is most definitely the top, but who holds control? IMO it is equal.