HUGS spice!

Wise dominion need not be harsh, or cruel, in fact it can be very very gentle.

My Owner had to take a whole different approach to domination with me after what had happened to me before he came back into my life. My submission had to be gently coaxed forth. Everything had to be re-learned for both of us. Things I once enjoyed had become terrifing. Re-learning how to trust and surrender again to someone was very very difficult for me and him both. But it can be done. Have hope, find a kink friendly therapist to help. Stay strong and take things as slow as you need to take them.