Lol re: the math comments....I can do math, apparently I can't write
Thanks for all the comments. Mistress Mallory, I was telling myself that, that if it were a good relationship essentially it would be okay one way or the other, but I guess I needed to hear it. The last couple Doms I was with (admittedly casual relationships) really took it personally, - the type of Doms like leah described and I found that just made things worse. So I was really unsure about even trying to get involved with someone else.
I can cum usually once, alone or with a partner, but I then react to that and freeze, it's automatic. I understand why this happens, and I'm okay with it, was just concerned as many Doms do enjoy the power of controlling that response.
Anyway, thanks.