Quote Originally Posted by Flaming_Redhead View Post
Of course, I can't speak for everyone, but I want bondage and/or pain. There are people out there who feel the same as you and have groups and/or web sites devoted to 1950s household, head of household and Taken In Hand. Goreans are also not so much into S&M.
Not all BDSM activities directly involve bondage and/or pain. Age play, anal, collars, and humiliation, to name a few for example, do not necessarily involve bondage or pain.

Just because someone is not into pain/bondage does not mean they aren't into other aspects of BDSM and are only looking for 1950's style relationship.