Let's not forget that the "definition" of "normal" changes over time. So any man who was openly bisexual in ancient greece was normal, but perverted and sick in the first half of the 20th century.

Anyone, in the USA, who indulged in oral sex, was perverted in the first half of the 20th century... Sodomy laws still abound in many states and countiies.

Being gay isn't an anathema to our 21st century press, but it is to most christian fundamentalist churches.

And what you do as a submissive, you do consensually... and the main difference between you and the "Taken in Hand" supporters, for example, is you admit you do so sexually, and they still "overlook" in conversations and discussions of their lifestyle, that they are also practicing their beliefs in the bedroom.

Bottom line, I see no moral defect in consensual activities.