Hi , I'm relatively new here- I truly believe the female is superior to the male in so many ways. I don't want to demand anything- what the Dommes says goes- All subs have certain needs too and a good Domme is able to meet those needs without the sub topping from the bottom- important to build a good relationship before truly committing- this way each knows the other and can be satified- It is always important to meet the needs of the Domme as a priority, because they ARE the Dominant and it should be all about them. Submissives are able to satify the Domme much more when their having a need met, whether through humiliation which is my major key to subspace or whatever. May 2005 is my joining date but I have participated little till now.