Glad I found this! It does appear to be true, amazing to us both. However, there have been a couple of times where I have hit an emotional upheaval and can't take care of Evan. He has respectfully asked for control for a short period of time, and then given me simple things to think about to get me back on track. In many ways had we not started where we were, I don't think this would have worked. I can tell you, though, that I am happy to get back on top every time! And Evan is much happier with me there, too.