Hey all,

as I have mentioned a few times I'm in a non-D/s relationship and here to gather information and explore a bit...

I have a few question about punishments in a D/s relationship.

First of all, what sort of thing is a punishable offense? There have to be some things that are let to slide, no? I also wonder about the nature of punishments. Is it still "play" or are punishments serious facilitators through which to express anger? Do people in D/s relationships have just regular-old-relationship fights (yelling and heated conversation)? What factors does one use to decide what the punishment will be? Do Doms breach "hard limits" of their subs when punishing them?

General information and feedback is appreciated. Thanks!