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- Suspension (4 replies)
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- Question for all who are NOT "Switches" (25 replies)
- Question for the "Switches" on the board (17 replies)
- Hanging up. Advice (13 replies)
- Problems with Love (21 replies)
- Why Do Men Lie? (18 replies)
- We scened tonight and.... (12 replies)
- A Dom's Emotions (8 replies)
- Delurk: anyone have a similar experience with electric play? (8 replies)
- Distraught, despair and depression! (20 replies)
- Good manners when sevicing a Master (6 replies)
- Puppy Names (4 replies)
- Petslaves? (9 replies)
- Proper ettiquette on the forum (2 replies)
- Is a dominant ever wrong in a situation? (13 replies)
- Semi-Reluctant Dom needs hints (9 replies)
- How to bring a new gf without experience into bdsm?? (14 replies)
- Caring for yours and your own. (10 replies)
- Is fisting bad for your health? (15 replies)
- Should a Master be a slave? (19 replies)
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- Blogging my slave's training (11 replies)
- Coming to Terms (15 replies)
- Professions (64 replies)
- My Master's coming home!!!!!!! (1 replies)
- lydia's response to Spike (3 replies)
- Wimps? (27 replies)
- Embarrassing momnents (10 replies)
- A funny thing happened on the way to the dungeon (8 replies)
- New here and seeking advice (6 replies)
- Any Ideas? (12 replies)
- Horrible first time play party experience (16 replies)
- owning a male sub... (9 replies)
- Just a rant (27 replies)
- Age in the lifestyle (13 replies)
- Disheartened - Cyber Spouse (4 replies)
- Why the 24 hour bdsm? (34 replies)
- Helping Your Master Through Depression (17 replies)
- Success in converting a vanilla partner? (3 replies)
- Polyamory and BDSM (4 replies)
- (long)You can't serve two Masters or three or four.... (rant/commentery/sounding off) (21 replies)
- Voting Rights (22 replies)
- Does you mother know? (28 replies)
- How can a Couple find a Local F-Sub? (11 replies)
- Oh yeah, that's embarrassing. (7 replies)
- The Responsibilities of a Dominant/Master (71 replies)
- A Matter of Time (4 replies)
- Online vs R/L relationships (28 replies)
- My Life is Too Busy for BDSM (7 replies)
- BDSM & Jerry Springer... oy vay (24 replies)
- Potential Hazards of Online Romances (16 replies)
- Big Difference or Similarity Minute? (10 replies)
- Very worried that current bdsm is caused by past abuse (85 replies)
- Vanilla quotes with a deeper connotation (3 replies)
- first time...any suggestions (1 replies)
- Death of a Dom (6 replies)
- Punishing my Princess (10 replies)
- Dilemma (4 replies)
- caroline's humiliations (3 replies)
- question from newbie (8 replies)
- slave registry (7 replies)
- Signs BDSM playtime is OVER: The cops show up! (37 replies)
- What type of submissive are you? (5 replies)
- Body Writing (24 replies)
- Something happened on the way to the top (6 replies)
- How hard is too hard? (6 replies)
- When Doms hit on Dommes (26 replies)
- Feminization (1 replies)
- raped for being sub? (24 replies)
- Buzz from pain (6 replies)
- Public Displays? (30 replies)
- Give me some punishment ideas please (2 replies)
- Aphrodisiac? (13 replies)
- A need for input regarding... (18 replies)
- humiliation scenes - ideas anyone? (12 replies)
- Not Really A "Lifestyle" Post But... (7 replies)
- What's In It??? (2 replies)
- Sub or slave? (2 replies)
- Advice needed (4 replies)
- How much of a masochist or Sadist are you? (11 replies)
- Personals - Do subs contact Doms? (23 replies)
- BDSM vs. Abuse (14 replies)
- Because Cages are Fun and Useful (19 replies)
- Growth (5 replies)
- Bastinado (6 replies)
- Predicament Bondage (17 replies)
- Suggestions for punishments (15 replies)
- Tired of it, just sick and tired of it all (12 replies)
- Advice needed (12 replies)
- self CBT (0 replies)
- BDSM & Marital and Emotional Infidelities (19 replies)
- Are all dominant women in it for money? (30 replies)
- Keeping in touch with Doms/Dommes (15 replies)
- A gag question (23 replies)
- New Life! (5 replies)
- Help with online punishment (11 replies)
- penis enlargement (5 replies)
- Stores in Cleveland OH??? (4 replies)
- Help with friend (1 replies)
- first toys (15 replies)
- The worst (0 replies)
- A little help here (6 replies)
- Pointing out the wolves to the sheep ~ Opinions please (4 replies)
- big toys (6 replies)
- My First Cock and Brain conference (1 replies)
- New to the scene (9 replies)
- how do you get in contact with people that are into bdsm (4 replies)
- A question for the female dommes (15 replies)
- Let's really get to know each other! (78 replies)
- Whips and floggers (17 replies)
- I'm soo horny! (2 replies)
- Why adveratise illegal kinks? (30 replies)
- Finding a True Submissive - How hard can it be? (22 replies)
- First time?? (4 replies)
- How to get BF more into it? I want to be pushed. (16 replies)
- Breaking (13 replies)
- So new and so lost (20 replies)
- softies (41 replies)
- What about size? (25 replies)
- A Poem (2 replies)
- About Younger Women (29 replies)
- Help a newbie young Married Couple (8 replies)
- Kink at bedtime (8 replies)
- Check this new BDSM movie! (0 replies)
- fetish night costume (12 replies)
- Have a question, and hope this is right place to put it (14 replies)
- Self-bondage (7 replies)
- Outing myself to a Nilla World (2 replies)
- My Pix (3 replies)
- A Question for Dommes (3 replies)
- Getting the partner involved? (20 replies)
- Dirty names calling during sex... (7 replies)
- Multiple Threads for Similar Topics (15 replies)
- Funny story (3 replies)
- What professions are most vulnerable to BDSM? (17 replies)
- Rules for your slave. (16 replies)
- Mouthy sub (39 replies)
- What about children? (26 replies)
- Switching One Day A Week (1 replies)
- alternative collars (6 replies)
- how to get partner involved? (14 replies)
- Personal Ad Overload! (15 replies)
- OMG at my mother (28 replies)
- Lactation (27 replies)
- Bad Girl? (5 replies)
- clothes pegs/pins (21 replies)
- Talons (7 replies)
- Gag question (26 replies)
- Going public (5 replies)
- Help Finding Wrist Binders (0 replies)
- Brown Shower (4 replies)
- Thank you! (1 replies)
- Corporal punishment and parenting (26 replies)
- Airport Security (6 replies)
- New and needing advise (5 replies)
- Advice on topping a first-timer? (5 replies)
- Is loving sadism an oxymoron? (7 replies)
- Slave Attire (3 replies)
- Need a new punishment ... (22 replies)
- Advice Required (10 replies)
- Move out of Vanilla (4 replies)
- So I'm back down south.... (11 replies)
- Great Valentine's idea (1 replies)
- domestic servitude (13 replies)
- Is it just me or what??? (10 replies)
- Does an interest in BDSM indicate a pattern of abuse in earlier life? (62 replies)
- Need support and advise (11 replies)
- Using a Dominatrix or a Professional Dominant (13 replies)
- Collared! (7 replies)
- older masters (21 replies)
- Conatct Lenses (Opaque) (9 replies)
- The place of sex in a D/s-bdsm relationship (35 replies)
- a question (18 replies)
- slave dilemma (16 replies)
- rubbing alcohol (13 replies)
- BDSM Tourguide - A Question (11 replies)
- First Draft Contracts (9 replies)
- Seasonal Greetings (smile) (6 replies)
- for all to see ;) (3 replies)
- Seek and you will find, ask and you will know (2 replies)
- Around the holidays (1 replies)
- turning a vanilla relation into an D/s one... (5 replies)
- Corset: The Ultimate bondage (13 replies)
- Focusing help (21 replies)
- Vanilla/Kink Crossroad (23 replies)
- looking for roleplay website (7 replies)
- Prejudice? (11 replies)
- Is it right to dominate a low self-esteem sub? (53 replies)
- Funny true stories (47 replies)
- Chafing/ Rope Burn (0 replies)
- Dripping pussy (12 replies)
- Where can I buy a real whip (16 replies)
- I love mental torture ... (9 replies)
- shaving (36 replies)
- A question of space? (14 replies)
- Pony Training Information (30 replies)
- Piercings (38 replies)
- Hi - we're back (again) (2 replies)
- Intelligence, Education and BDSM (12 replies)
- Rubber Dipped Clothespins (10 replies)
- Parameters of BDSM - questions from a novice (11 replies)
- London (1 replies)
- Comfortable in the lifestyle (14 replies)
- Pet Peeves of the online community (27 replies)
- Ball torture (0 replies)
- Fantasy vs. Stark Reality... (66 replies)
- bdsm tattoos (48 replies)
- Hardpoints (15 replies)
- What toys you have and which one(s) are your favorites? (158 replies)
- Submissive/Slave Names (61 replies)
- A Table's Table (Real Life) (6 replies)
- Blocking, Followed by Rapture (1 replies)
- Why do I have these fantasies? (1 replies)
- Ass Fucking Humilation (5 replies)
- Chastity devices ... (116 replies)
- Ball Fucking (17 replies)
- Tied Nuts (1 replies)
- Online relationships 101 (37 replies)
- Question about fetishes (3 replies)
- Request for advice (Corsets) (21 replies)
- Orgasm Deprivation (44 replies)
- a first meeting (17 replies)
- Damn it all to Hell! Help! (16 replies)
- Now, the other side of on-line (4 replies)
- Recieved A Gift Out of submission Today (5 replies)
- On-line punishment (41 replies)
- Contract Term Date (4 replies)
- Domination... (16 replies)
- Yoga Torture (6 replies)
- Orgasm Frequency (6 replies)
- What was the first submissive thing you did? (150 replies)
- a question for the submissives/slaves (36 replies)
- A Funny Thing Happened... (5 replies)
- Hot weekend (3 replies)
- Seeking some relationship advice (36 replies)
- What do Submissives want (15 replies)
- pet personalities (35 replies)
- Innate or Learned? (41 replies)
- Poor me :( (22 replies)
- Beastiality - The beast in all of us - The survey (49 replies)
- First Real Experience!! (15 replies)
- Favorite Positions (9 replies)
- What a father's day! (3 replies)