Quote Originally Posted by TomOfSweden View Post
I don't get it either. For me a relationship is based on love, not which bits gets put into which holes. Love is love no matter if it's on-line or off. Cheating is giving love on the side without your spouses aproval. I've met girls who in theory would like to be one of many slaves, but none who when it gets around to it actually want to follow through with it. But I'm not going to judge or make assumptions. I'll just keep trying to understand, (out of my own selfish interests who wouldn't want a harem of their own).
So are you separating cheating from adultery? I could easily admit to cheating but never to adultery?

This subject has been discussed many time before here and there are always those on both sides of the issue who have strong feelings. So no matter what your view, to you you are right and nothing is going to change your mind. It is like saying, "Please don't confuse me with facts" in my opinion.

I know I'm not trying to change anyone's mind and I'm certainly not letting anyone change my mind.