Yes, i will take a picture for Y/you. Once I finish reading the instructions for the camera and my poison ivy clears up. It's mostly gone, some dry, red patches. But I didn't shave my legs while I had it...and the gorilla look doesn't look good on me. (my daily collar is a silver anklet)

Today I learned a valuable lesson. I can try so hard to not make the same mistakes as a sub that I have in the past that I end up going too far in the other direction. Balance isn't as easy as it looks, especially when it's such simple advice. Communication is such an obvious lesson, I learned it the hard way, but knowing how to communicate is just as important. It's all in the delivery.