If I may make an observation, everyone that has responded to this thread has made it clear that their partners are aware of their online activities. This says to me that there is a healthy communication going on between the spouses concerned and at the end of the day, being in a relationship is about communication.

Being open and honest about our needs, wants and expectations is as I said in my previous post, is paramount to getting them met in one way or the other. Someone once said "you have not because you ask not..." and how are our spouses/partners to know if we don't ask or talk to them about it.

On the upside since my wife has been reading my stories, she has taken to calling me Master occasionally and is even a little more willing to go places she hasn't been in the past.

In a way this place has taught me to be true to myself and what I want and need. Peoples willingness to share in an open and honest way has opened my eyes to many possibilities I would not have normally considered and my marriage would likely be a pile of ash by now.

So thank you to all who have shared in this thread and many others. And Tojo a very timely topic to choose and post on. Onya mate.

On a totally unrelated topic "Go West Coast" for the grand final and St George for the Rugby!