Is your marriage a happy one? Why do you do it? Would you leave your spouse for your D/s partner? Would you meet them in r/l? Is is cheating?
When does it become cheating?
I was married for 18 years. Over the years problems within the marriage took their toll until I was very unhappy and wanting out. I didn't know how to get out however. I had no education, no money, and a child to consider. So I stayed and prayed.

I met my Joe online and fell crazy in love with him. We talked online for 10 months. During that time we made plans to be together. We each went through divorces and once they were final Joe came for me. We had never met face to face until the day he came to take me to the home he set up for us.

Yes, I cheated on my husband by talking to and falling in love with another man. For me it became cheating when my heart said yes to my Joe.

Would I do it again? Yes, I have guilt about the way it happened. But, I have never been happier than I am with this man.