Quote Originally Posted by Rabbit1 View Post
Well I was not going to comment on this ---but it seems a lot of people feel online relationshops are cheating on their spouse ---

My feeling toward this as long as it is online only ---it is a fantasy ---no more than watching a move and having a fantasy about being the one that love is being made to --by the actor

or a man seeing a sexy woman walking down the street and wondering in his mind what she would be like in the sack.

Fantasy has always been a great escape for those who are unhappy in a relationship ---like reading romance novels -----

In the past I had this same problem ---a sub of mine ---got to feeling guilty that she was cheating on her husband ---and we had never met face to face.

there is nothing to feel guilty about ----adultry or cheating is physical ---just because you think about something does not make you guilty of it ---or I would be in prison for thinking about killing a lot of assholes ---lol

I am glad you met Joe and things worked out for you ---and you have nothing to ever feel guilty about----

And for some, not even then. It depends on what a couple has agreed upon in advance.