So now that I have posted my introduction (not fully), I am goinig to respond to this thread, which is what prompted me to post my introduction in the first place.
Yes i have an online D's relationship and yes it is strictly fantasy. However, considering my current relationship which has been very long term and without sex for quite awhile, I would consider meeting r/l. But I know I will not because yes I consider that cheating, and yes what I do now is considered cheating. All I can say is that I have a need that I want met, I do not want to beg for it, unless it involved the lifestyle which it does not.