Married/online D/s?

[Timberwolf]

"It's placing the blame on the person you choose to betray that 'offends' me."

Let's dicount the ridiculously loaded way you've chosen to word your posts for a second.

So you think it would be better if people stayed in unhappy situations instead of looking for something better? If the other partner simply isn't willing or able to budge, and it leaves someone in a position of genuine unhappiness, they should just sit on it?

[storm]

Not at all.
But that's exactly what we are talking about isn't it?
Staying in an unhappy situation, but choosing to find something better as well.

Take not of the last part of the above statement.

And in response to your 'high horse' comment earlier, I hardly think that's what I'm standing on.

I've cheated, I've been cheated on, and I've been the other woman (but knowingly and not). I've done things that a number of people would believe are completely void of any morals.

But the mistakes have made have been MY MISTAKES.