Not at all.
But that's exactly what we are talking about isn't it?
Staying in an unhappy situation, but choosing to find something better as well.

Take not of the last part of the above statement.

And in response to your 'high horse' comment earlier, I hardly think that's what I'm standing on.

I've cheated, I've been cheated on, and I've been the other woman (but knowingly and not). I've done things that a number of people would believe are completely void of any morals.

But the mistakes have made have been MY MISTAKES.