I firmly believe that being dominant or submissive is something you are born and in part raised to be. Anyone can learn how to dominate, but you have tohave a natural talent for it to be really good at it.

Compare it to the everyday life. Some people are just natural born leaders, others are natural born followers. A natural born leader does not have to be really intelligent or know much about anything, it is just his/her attitude that is a leader's attitude.

Everything you do, you have to learn it. However, there is always an element of talent that you are born with. Virtually anybody can learn how to play a violin, play football, or calculate the orbit of a satellite. There are, however, only a few who are really talented and who become great. Why would sexual dominance be any different?